Never blame your past self, Always look forward, always have a buy-and-pay mindset, Always (sunk costs don't participate in major decisions), Never (separate subjective and objective), Always love yourself, don't optimize the other road not taken In this life tuition is the most expensive, don't be afraid of making mistakes Some people and things come to your side to ferry you a stretch, They are all your teachers, looking back and seeing some mistakes means you're already great, don't look back, people must look forward.
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Based in: Japan · Nagoya. If you like niche things you shouldn't care about the public's gaze! Height 166cm Weight 55kg Leo
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Looking forChat, In real life, Marriage
Dynamics
Let me see if there are any living s's left, grab one 😂 From Nagoya-Nagoya-Hebei, best in Nagoya……
Everything is things changed, people changed
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A whole big breakdown move
I cried watching it, I'm too restrained, too wronged, too unwilling Just take advantage of the grievance to properly experience your young and ignorant obsession Qiqi's words have life, every word is a trace of her looking back at her past self, her experiences and memories are vivid so everyone reads them wonderfully, coming to Shengmo for so many, many years, coming and going, only Qiqi's words still move people's hearts.
I cried watching it, I'm too restrained, too wronged, too unwilling Just take advantage of the grievance to properly experience your young and ignorant obsession Qiqi's words have life, every word is a trace of her looking back at her past self, her experiences and memories are vivid so everyone reads them wonderfully, coming to Shengmo for so many, many years, coming and going, only Qiqi's words still move people's hearts.
Trapped in a life predicament, don't know how or in what way to encounter my ideal concrete life, too good ones make me feel inferior and self-consume, too bad ones I really can't settle for, very困顿
Da Linzi is so funny and so charismatic 😂😂😂
"When joy ends, sorrow comes; know that flourishing and decline have a fixed number." Roughly it means: when happiness reaches its end, sad things may happen, the growth and decline of all things have a fixed number, people's ups and downs are an objective law. Lone yin does not give birth, lone yang does not grow; Yin and yang combine and all things are born, this is the Way of Heaven. Many times many things that happen look immensely painful or even catastrophic in the moment. Put them on a timeline ten years later or even across your whole life, slowly open the scroll of your life and look at the whole, the current gains and losses, disasters and hardships are only to improve your spiritual endurance, this is the foundation of everything. The universe, energy, cognition, virtue, these are invisible but you cannot deny their existence because in our world the invisible decides the visible; such as matter, wealth, social status, personal achievement. "All conditioned phenomena are like dreams, illusions, bubbles, shadows." What you see is not necessarily real, what you don't see is not necessarily absent. Dark matter passes through your body hundreds of tons per second. CCTV news this year talked about neutrinos (search Baidu if you don't understand) all invisible. Our known top scientists in the end all went to study theology, for example Mr. Qian Xuesen founded Bureau 749. Humans need at all times to recognize their own insignificance and have reverence. "The greatness of Kunpeng is like the smallness of dust, also bound by laws" So humans can never be completely free and unfettered, what they can do is only maneuver within the rules, and that is already very satisfying. Relative freedom is not constraint, it is to avoid human nature distortion where someone is always persecuted. As much responsibility as you bear, that much freedom you can bear. But many people (Xu DuoRen) only want freedom and don't want to bear responsibility, the consequence is constantly persecuting each other, which the Way of Heaven does not allow. Virtue is your exam score, big exams and small exams to what level, what life you live, this is fairness and freedom. Bad and good are cultivated by yourself Besides this, it's fate.
I saw again someone I briefly spent time with, making a comeback The money he owed me was only obtained by resorting to law, despicable character To this day I think a man taking a woman's money is quite shameless We separated because I heard him smugly Casually saying how his ex paid a lot for him, had an abortion for him And I feel a person has no basic reverence for life Is smug about others'付出 (sacrifices) At ease with no gratitude This deviates too much from my life He's a quite capable, very active person At the time I lent him money so he wouldn't be in difficulty Later I felt his character was despicable But in business, people who are too clean can't survive I know why his life has such ups and downs Including the people I come into contact with I feel most business people are gamblers I used to be too, but no regrets, times have changed It's all rewards, say goodbye to the past, let go of love and hate
Do you believe in fate? I do Marriage fate is predestined by heaven, the only choice is not up to your consideration But what if I want to break free from the fate script and go in the opposite direction? Different roads lead to the same end, the people you should meet, the debts you should repay, the experiences you should have, won't change because of your choices and actions. Could it be that what I get from desperately fighting is just "a mantis trying to shake a tree"? I want to answer you fate is made by oneself, but actually effort can change very, very little. Fortune is your personal encounters, but the fleeting years and great luck are not changed by your thoughts, rivers, lakes and seas will not flow backwards.
So basically if I don't put effort in I simply can't find a proper s, right 😭
Lies without purpose and harm are freedom
A happy 2026 and every happy year after
Looking for a master. Looking for a dom
I really love this wallpaper, full of vitality, and by the way I'll study hard 🥰 Right today I truly perceive happiness ☺️ I really love, love myself so much, it has nothing to do with any external things but I'm just physically and mentally happy 😁 I cherish today's bright sunshine immensely. Family being healthy and safe is what I want and I got it, that's enough. 2026/2/2
Invincibly rich and fragrant sugar-free latte
Can any dom explain to me the difference between an s and a dom 😂😂😂
The probability of a good sub finding a dom is actually not high, because you won't willingly let your wings be broken and be a confined toy, nor are you willing to objectify yourself. Your soul is abundant and not withered, how could you willingly be fertilizer for a dom. #ShareAMoment
I hope my brave rush forward is to satisfy my regrets about youth; a belated footnote in my mark of maturity.
Pretty manicure. My sister-in-law and second sister treated me like a dress-up doll and did it for me, hahaha 😂
I changed my new avatar, come take a look ~
My mood is terrible, I feel not everything will go as I wish, but I must hold my temper and keep my original intention steady.
Just finished playing cards, so tired, my reactions are a bit slow 😂😂😂
May you have good luck, if not I hope you learn strength in compassion May many, many people (DuoRen) love you, if not I hope you learn tolerance in loneliness 😂2026/2/14
Listening to firecrackers outside the window, tears fell like rain [em]e400867[/em]. Mixed feelings 🥹 A toast to all the hardships of this year. The new year will get better.
Happy New Year 🎉
Heading to Mount Wutai. At this time I don't ask for my remaining life to be invincibly smooth, I only ask that when I face setbacks I have the courage to arm-wrestle fate and the perseverance to keep fighting…… Seek inward, life grows endlessly.
Does anyone have a channel for tickets? I can't get in 😂😂😂
I have no fate with Mount Wutai, or the fate hasn't arrived yet 😑 A tribute to the fourth year I failed to go.
Spring is suitable for giving yourself to someone, suitable for telling a huge lie, saying thousands of miles, I'll follow you wherever you go
Sister started loving Huang Jingyu, is this right? In my teens I never chased stars, now at thirty I love hormonal men? Did my damn progesterone induce labor?
Lei Jun, after three years sharpening a sword but failing Lost a lot of money, dreams shattered, sorry for many people's (Xu DuoRen) promises Then he thought such a good product how could it sell so poorly, it was written by top programmers, how could the market not buy it, he clumsily learned from the sales champion, repeating and imitating until he became a sales champion, understood you need to look at market demand not build behind closed doors, wanted to resign in guilt and wander for half a year, in the process read Selected Works of Mao, quoted the rural-encircling-city strategy, kept polishing small things, doing "small games" others looked down on, then had a chance to be high-end. Doudou's books, after decades, still feel fresh every time you read them. Not obscuring cause and effect, being free and at ease, how difficult a thing that is. Possessing top wisdom and seeing through the result, what can you do? People are hard to be saved by others, can't be saved, powerless, disdain to explain, unwilling to explain, not being understood doesn't matter at all. Some will say Ding Yuanying is arrogant and rebellious, because the person who could resonate with his soul died, the blood堵 in his chest when drinking tea is powerlessness and immense pity. Rui Xiaodan's father was stubborn and willful, trapped in incomprehension, so he didn't allow him to worship or know Xiaodan's burial place. Including Ding Yuanying leaving the ancient city decisively and without nostalgia, actually he was forced to leave a sad place. Even the strongest person, facing a loved one's death, won't be able to quit emotions. Life's final outcome is helplessness. Too many people (Tai DuoRen) think days are unhappy because of poverty, actually it's not, nowadays even if you go begging, China is so big you definitely won't starve to death…… The core of unhappiness is desire It's fabricated desire, it's fame and success Actually fundamentally it's still obsession, but these are illusions. Worldly achievements may be, for young people; To pursue, but if I need to sacrifice my own life Then actually it's not worth it. Living the rest of life long and stable, small wealth and peace, that's the most comfortable days. Those at their peak will surely fall, An overly ups-and-downs life is not what I want I don't want to taste its flavor either. Because carefully tasting it, it must be all bitterness; Upper-middle days, a great hermit hidden in the city, not overly outstanding But the life I want, I slowly satisfy. Need privacy and not overly exposing myself, no need to be magnified by the world to pick mistakes and be forced to be examined at all times. I understand all this and slowly open the gate Release the surging thoughts in my chest and the rest of my life. Never criticize myself, not constantly reflect Not overly correct whether I'm right or wrong, As long as the big picture is okay I came to this life not to be a perfect, flawless good person in the eyes of the world, morality not allowing any flaw, accept that good and evil coexist in myself but occasionally notice my own thoughts is enough. No need to wear a sense of innocence on me at all times, money is not dirty nor shameless, nor does it need me to sell my conscience and overly compromise and wrong myself. That's enough. Content ☺️
Find someone who likes Doudou's works, like the TV series Tiandao / The Remote Savior Welcome to disturb (Sao扰) 🙂↔️🙂↔️🙂↔️
Fate is an adventure game constantly updating versions
😂😂😂 Around age twenty I liked uncles Now I'm 28 I feel uncles' bodies aren't too okay anymore? But yesterday a fortune teller studied Ziwei Doushu with me and said my other half is at least seven years older than me? I thought, can he still have children? Hahaha 😂 it was just a subconscious reaction, at that age can he still produce? I find myself funny 😂 actually many people (Xu DuoRen) said my marriage is bad, I'm a woman with a man's fate 😂 I thought I'm now weak, gentle, emotionally stable, peaceful 😂 but love, let's discuss in a few years 😂😂😂
Youthful melancholy
Dragon Boat Festival well-being, friends.
Little bird wakes up early early early
Hope to meet someone compatible
"I have long drunk the gloom of many years, after spring clears, soaking flesh, blood and bones, once again possessing a pair of clear and bright eyes." —— Wishing dear Jiajia to forge ahead courageously
Now m's in the scene Are the master's female 🐶 and the company's workhorse (cattle and horses) Being human is really hard hahaha 😂
People who think the Eight Characters' heavenly stems and earthly branches are superstition are essentially intellectually weak, without any wisdom, only firmly believing this world is a diode, either right or wrong, either this or that, either black or white, not understanding, not learning, no right to speak 🤣
Like a sprinting, flying dragon [Wangchai][Wangchai][Wangchai]
🙂🙂🙂 Feels like I can't find one (ddlg), doesn't smoke, doesn't drink excessively, can drive, no cold violence allowed, I'm '97 (born 1997), can't be younger than me. Must be unmarried, is this hard, is it hard, is it hard?
Starting this year, except physical desire being a bit out of control Other than that, love desire and appetite are controlled incredibly well, and then I got very good attention, invincible focus on myself, my weight because of restraint is slowly dropping in an orderly way, the downward road has reached the bottom and should go up 🤣, in this life I'll never be a stupid woman to death!
Some gains I got in the group. The Bible says it is more blessed to give than to receive 😂 I joined an all-female community with very good energy. Slowly nourishing myself 🫡 Being able to nourish yourself well is a remarkable skill.
Ten years ago vs today, like two different people!
