Based in: USA, San Jose.
Looking for a long-lasting Mu, devoted, loyal, strong Mu nature.
k1 k2 k6 k9 (moderate) Height 175cm Weight 75kg Scorpio
InterestsModerate / Experienced / 7–10 yrs
Looking forIn real life
Dynamics
First day downloading this APP, still don't know how to play, posted a dynamic but haven't found it, can only post again hahaha
I am now in San Jose, an uncle, usually like formal wear, white clothes, hometown Liaoning, now developing in Jiangsu-Zhejiang-San Jose, engaged in the internet industry, in life I feel I'm the gentleman type, have a broad mind and pattern
Don't smoke, don't drink, don't play cards, don't fish
Like worshipping Buddha and going to Taoist temples, traveling like watching scenery
Understood in 2016, formally entered the circle in 2018, after 2022 haven't taken in an M anymore. Moderate TJ, not many people, not casual appointments,
Before 2022 played: face slapping, hair pulling, wax dripping, fucking machine, neck choking, licking feet, anal sex, holy water, licking toilet, whipping the back with a belt, licking shoes, swallowing semen, cooling oil, licking anus, kowtowing, these.
Looking for a long-term girlfriend Mu, 1v1, likes uncles, strong Mu nature
Now the circle is so chaotic, now there are more fake S, fake M; men scam for sex, women scam for money 💰 Ask the big shots, are there many wife Mus now?
Love has a cleanliness obsession; I can not ask about the past,
But once it starts there cannot be flaws. I don't mind the bowl I eat from being used by others,
But I mind when I'm eating, others putting their chopsticks into my bowl
Now the circle is getting more and more incomprehensible. An M can also be an S, but the premise is to pay money 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Has the circle now become a trading market?
No one knows my road clearly, like that lonely mountain rising with fog.
No one understands my heart's unwillingness, like that empty lonely mountain.
Alone on a long road, lonely and solitary, who to talk to.
Placing a piece, no regrets. A person cannot be correct in every step; choosing wrong is choosing wrong. Life has no 'ifs,' only results. The road you've walked, the people you've met, will surely teach you something. The past is all cause, the present is all effect. Stop overthinking, that's stopping manufacturing non-existent problems; one thought letting go is rebirth.
The road of entrepreneurship, most of the time is hard-carrying alone — pressure with no one to confide in, difficulties digested alone; liveliness belongs to others, loneliness is the norm. Striving deeply in career, craving after shedding a body of fatigue, to have a soul-fitting confidant, no need to deliberately cater, deeply knows my ambition and difficulties; afterwards hand in hand struggling, in poverty guarding each other, in wealth accompanying each other.
After being away for several years, returning after precipitation, seeking a small Mu whose soul is on the same frequency.
Eight years of journey, shedding purely sensory pursuits, deeply knowing a good bond ultimately returns to souls understanding each other. Experienced loss of control, deeply understands propriety and rhythm, does not pursue superficial play.
May we remove all masks, face our true selves. Think clearly about the craving at the bottom of the heart: is it admiring submission, emotional release, or the soul finding a place to settle. Keep your own bottom line, don't blindly overdraw yourself. If you are willing to explore yourself, I will gently guide, patiently accompany.
In the circle, it's a Si-Mu bond, obey instructions, accept reasonable rewards and punishments, absolutely not cross your boundaries;
Outside the circle, we are soul mates, confiding in each other, dating and accompanying, spiritually dependent, having real love and fireworks.
Prefer moderate k1, k2, k6, k7, k9.
Sincerely seek long-term, hope to meet a fitting you, from girlfriend Mu, toward wife Mu, soul and reality guarding each other two-ways.
August 15 is a day engraved in the nation's bones and blood. Today more than seventy years ago, after experiencing mountains and rivers broken, bloody resistance, the invaders announced unconditional surrender, gunpowder smoke slowly dispersed, and the Chinese nation welcomed a hard-won victory.
Looking back at that period, the land was trampled, the people displaced. Countless martyrs threw their heads, shed hot blood, built a Great Wall with flesh and blood. There were soldiers charging into battle, ordinary people running and calling out; tens of millions of ordinary Chinese people, with unyielding backbone, endured hardship and fought for mountains and rivers to be unharmed. This victory was not easily obtained; it was dawn exchanged with layers of sacrifice.
Remembering history is not continuing hatred, but not forgetting past suffering. We look back at the past to remember the devastation brought by war, remember the ancestors' resistance and persistence, understand how precious today's peace is. Time flows, gunpowder smoke has long gone, but history cannot be diluted, pain should not be forgotten. In the present where mountains and rivers are unharmed, every inch of tranquility carries the ancestors' expectations.
A kind heart can reach the gods, high virtue can suppress ghosts.
A soft nature can gather wealth, cautious words can keep away disputes.
True filial piety can increase longevity, firm will can shake mountains.
Humility can dissolve hostility, honesty can gather fate.
Upright conduct can avoid calamity, tranquility can reach far.
Broad measure can eliminate resentment, knowing when to stop can abstain from greed.
Keeping integrity can keep away humiliation, knowing awe can keep safe in danger.
Valuing righteousness can obtain help, holding compassion can eliminate disaster.
Self-restraint can cultivate fortune, few desires can calm the heart.
Being close to relatives can harmonize the clan, being happy to do good can open auspiciousness.
Self-reflection can correct mistakes, keeping simplicity can avoid madness.
Upright qi can calm oneself, pure heart can solidify the root.
Family harmony can prosper business, thick virtue can flow grace.
Ancestors' blessings can pass to descendants, kind thoughts can welcome auspiciousness.
The road ahead is all smooth, all actions are good.
A hundred calamities all stay away, four seasons keep peace.
Every year much auspicious celebration, the rest of life all fulfillment.
In this life, most people grit their teeth and move forward under pressure. Carrying the weight of life and career on one side, repeatedly tangling in countless choices on the other. Clearly in a sea of people, the inner heart often feels lonely.
Seemingly calm on the outside, at night there will also be tired and helpless moments. We are all striving to survive, encouraging ourselves on one side, silently digesting all emotions on the other.
How I hope someone could accompany me by my side, no need for words at all times, yet understands your advance and retreat, accepts your vulnerability. Can go to the future together, can also catch a body full of fatigue.
But fate is never up to people; many roads ultimately can only be walked by oneself. All kinds of pressure borne by oneself, all kinds of thoughts hidden by oneself, persisting in loneliness, continuing forward in ups and downs.
What is a soul mate in the circle: spiritual resonance above submission and respect
In special emotional circles, a soul mate is not worldly ordinary love, nor does it equal desire compatibility; it is a rare spiritual bond built on domination and submission.
Many people mistakenly think one side controls and the other obeys is soul fit. But true soul bond: the role is only an external form; the core is the equal resonance of two souls.
In real life, everyone needs to disguise decency, hide vulnerability, obsession and misunderstood inner heart. Meeting a soul mate, you can remove all disguises, expose the truest side of your inner heart. Secret emotions at the bottom of your heart, unknown heart knots, can be understood and accepted, will not be mocked, and even more will not be used.
The dominating side holds power, yet knows restraint and protection, understands this submission is trust the other willingly handed over, not capital for reckless taking. The submitting side is willing to deliver spiritual sustenance, but personality is always independent, has the right to keep boundaries and withdraw at any time. Roles have upper and lower divisions, personality has no high or low distinction; respect and security are the foundation of this relationship.
Lust is only an accessory of the relationship, not all of it. Stripping role labels, returning to ordinary person identity, each other can still communicate well. Facing life pressure, career confusion, inner loneliness, can comfort each other; sometimes without much words, can read the other's emotions.
But this ideal is very scarce, in reality misconceptions abound. Quite a few people treat a 'soul contract' as shackles, only requiring the other to give unconditionally, while they themselves are unwilling to bear the responsibility of protection; only indulged in fantasy personas, unable to accept the other's real-life shortcomings. These are not soul mates, just packaging of desire.
A true soul mate is the two-way rushing of two independent souls. Giving comes from willingness, protection stems from responsibility, spirits understand each other. Such fate can be encountered but not sought.
In this society where no one goes on camera without beauty filters,
Let me post the most real me, an old man without beauty filter or filters,
Like this, probably no little M would like me 😍😍
Left home at 7 in the morning to take the high-speed rail, now just finished busy, taking the high-speed rail home. Haven't even eaten dinner.
Can someone understand your loneliness, can someone understand your difficulties 😆😆
What I hate most in being a person and doing things is insincerity, not keeping appointments, having no sense of time at all.
We agreed to talk at 10 a.m. today, I already arrived and you still say you're just leaving home — no concept of honesty and trustworthiness at all, bad review
Whether poor or accomplished it's all fate, why bother sighing.
Just know to do good deeds, don't ask about the future.
Winter goes, ice must melt; spring comes, grass grows on its own.
Please sir observe this principle, the way of heaven is very clear.
Meituan Grant, a self-made billionaire, a one-hour father-daughter podcast, doesn't teach stocks or finance, teaches the underlying thinking of business survival.
I. Obtaining advice: choose the right information source
Don't blindly listen to well-intentioned advice from relatives, friends and peers; goodwill does not equal correctness.
Effective advice only comes from people who have already obtained the results you want; others' cognition ceiling will limit your development.
Learn to filter noise, reduce ineffective information consumption.
II. Wealth logic: value + attention
The market has no obligation to proactively discover you. Your own ability is only the foundation; exposure and attention are the monetization channels.
Don't superstitiously believe 'good wine needs no bush,' you must both do things well and learn to display value.
Opportunities won't automatically come to your door; you need to proactively strive for them.
III. Sales is a universal survival ability
Sales is not just selling goods: negotiation, cooperation talks, striving for resources, self-expression — essentially all are selling yourself.
Being rejected does not equal negating the person, it's just timing mismatch; don't have a glass heart.
Practical case: The daughter needs funds to shoot a short film; the father doesn't directly give money, lets her raise funds from strangers, training her ability to bear rejection and persuade others; money is just a byproduct.
IV. Scale cognition: Small volume itself is a risk
From the personal lesson of the 2008 crisis: volume too small, one crisis can destroy everything.
Don't limit yourself, don't set goals too small; small goals create small patterns, weak anti-risk ability.
10X thinking: When thinking about goals, magnify ten times — not blindly expanding recklessly, but raising the pattern boundary.
V. Action logic: Do things first, then talk about passion
Public misconception: First have passion, then act.
Reality: First start and produce results, get positive feedback, then passion will be produced.
Many times hating a thing is just because you're not yet good at it; don't easily give up in the initial no-return stage.
VI. Connections: Knowing does not equal effective resources
The number of contacts in your address book is meaningless; trust is the real connections.
Noble people are not obtained by knowing, but exchanged through two-way value exchange.
No need to make many friends; keep a few reliable, mutually achieving relationships.
VII. Risk view: Keep the right to exit
Dare to take risks, but don't participate in gambles whose rules are not in your own control.
Before any investment, first think of the worst result: confirm you can afford to lose, keep the right to withdraw.
Don't gamble your entire fortune.
VIII. How to face criticism
Negative evaluations from ordinary passersby, directly ignore, don't consume emotions.
Only criticisms that will actually damage your business and real interests need a response.
Strong people prioritize protecting their own attention.
IX. Three ultimate life advices (key points at the end of the video)
Carefully choose a partner: A partner will decide your risk, return, emotional environment for decades, greatly rewriting your life trajectory.
Streamline your circle: Not many people truly hope you get better; no need to flatter everyone.
Understand money flow: Understand how money is created, transferred, retained — it's the underlying foundation of all choices.
A phone call in the morning, opening his mouth only talking about money, not a single greeting about recent situation.
The money expenditure itself is within my tolerance, I don't care about the expense. What truly makes my heart uncomfortable is that our interaction is left with only taking, without a bit of compassion and care.
Over a long time, our communication only revolves around material things, emotionally there is completely no two-way comfort. When something happens only talking about taking, ordinarily not asking or caring — when the sense of gap accumulates a lot, inevitably the heart gives rise to weariness.
Thoughts of separating often pop up; after calming down I know this is only a momentary emotional vent, cannot rashly decide. Afterwards I will actively level my own expectations, no longer extravagantly hope for proactive care, only handle matters within my duty, try to reduce meaningless mental consumption, quietly observe subsequent changes.
Who you're with really makes a difference. Some people are like chargers — chatting a few sentences will revive you with full blood; some people are like juicers — one sentence from him makes you live a few days less. Being with people of the same frequency, even silence is comfortable; no need to deliberately find topics, no need to pretend to be interested. He understands your hesitation to speak, can also catch your wild imagination. With truly same-frequency people, even nonsense is sweet.
Everything has an explanation, every matter has a result, every thing has an echo.
I found this small matter, many people cannot do it.
When your cognition gets higher and higher, you will understand every person around you.
In the world there is originally no absolute good or bad, and no black-or-white right or wrong. Each person standing at their own different life intersection, speaks words fitting their own cognition, makes the best choice in their own eyes at that moment, lives in a world belonging only to themselves.
Don't use your own standards to judge others, force the other to agree with your own ideas. Different languages and choices all come from each person's unique life circumstances.
Cognition improvement is not blindly compromising, but letting go of the obsession to change others. Accept the natural cognition gap between people, no longer obsess over seeking equal feedback, level your own expectations, steady your original heart, calmly view all kinds of fate and interpersonal differences.
1. Everything has an explanation, every matter has a result, every thing has an echo.
2. Things promised must be done; if you can't do it, don't promise.
3. In interactions you must be sincere, cannot have a bit of deception.
Just these 3 points, too few people can do them, like a big mountain, crushing many people hahaha
Marrying a wife has five to marry and five not to marry — is it right? Let's discuss
1. Marry someone from a family with honest family style, whose original family is reasonable.
2. Marry someone with a calm and kind heart-nature, strong emotional bearing capacity.
3. Marry someone who knows propriety, can manage a household, body and mind fit.
4. Marry someone who can rise and fall together, not flee in adversity.
5. Marry someone with a sense of boundaries, who protects the small family.
6. Do not marry someone whose natal family is a bottomless pit, whose parents love to stir up trouble and scheme.
7. Do not marry someone emotionally out of control, who loves to carry gossip, with severe internal friction.
8. Do not marry someone vain and money-worshipping, who only values wealth.
9. Do not marry someone with deep obsessions, everything black or white, who refuses to communicate.
10. Do not marry someone overly selfish, guarding everywhere, hiding thoughts.
My information is real, looking to take in a wife Mu, for the purpose of marriage and having children, a soul mate.
I like k1 k2 k6 k9, moderate.
Currently developing in the Yangtze River Delta region. Engaged in the internet industry, height 172 weight 160.
The Mu should have good character, correct three views, be devoted, strong Mu nature, high loyalty, rather lack than settle.
