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Based in: USA, San Jose. The foundation of trust is communication, the foundation of communication is meeting; open your heart to accept your true inner self, find your master, and with your heart experience everything he brings you! SM releases the soul and enjoys passion; kneeling before the master, put down your arrogant and hypocritical appearance in life and experience the master's kneading, abuse and ravaging of your body, and spiritual baptism. Seeking an American female M, glass hearts please stay away Height 172cm Weight 73kg Scorpio
InterestsModerate / Experienced / 7–10 yrs
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Insomnia, can't sleep well, a cup of coffee every day to keep living.... in a daze I even ordered wrong
Near San Jose, looking to take in a little M. Or someone who can come to San Jose long-term is also fine. I am a 36-year-old uncle, I like ddlg, I like age gaps, I am an S who has been in the circle a long time, a business owner, free time, sometimes also quite busy. I like a lot of play, you can come explore together, I like a clean circle, a private little world, can also consider keeping/captive raising, taboos are blood, dirt. I hope you are not fat, and are serious about chatting. I hope you also like age gaps, ddlg, I hope you are also coming for long-term. I hope you are happy.
This life, half crazy, half forget it....
When we have been in this circle for a long time, when we have experienced several relationships, we will have an increasingly deep understanding of Si-Mu. Most people ultimately float on the surface, unable to calm down and think about what they actually want in Si-Mu. I think the vast majority of S don't understand M; this part of people ultimately stays in their own desires. Most M like to be abused, but more than that they hope their S understands them — that sense of security of being controlled, held in the master's hand, being violently used by the master, the release of being whipped on the body. It's a liberation, a kind of being understood. When an S achieves that, I think an M will follow wholeheartedly. Some things, when spoken, others may not necessarily understand; only after experiencing them yourself will they be unforgettable and you'll have an epiphany. Newbie S should hold reverence in their hearts. May every M meet an S they admire, rather than being treated as a practice partner for a newbie S, or as someone else's venting bucket.
I've always liked ddlg, like small girls. Lively, energetic. I'm a responsible uncle who has both pampering and abuse; I look forward to a little M — can be free-range or kept penned. Looking for a clingy little brat
People always feel inexplicably lonely after finishing being busy, especially on the way home. Maybe because no one is waiting
Holding someone up and having their back — that's a sense of security, right?
Sub-wanted post. Area: San Jose. I'm a northerner, settled and starting a business in San Jose. My own company. Finances and time are both relatively free. I'm an S who's been in the scene a long time, I've had subs, and I have some insights of my own. Not saying I'm deeply senior, but at least I won't be inexperienced or rash. My attitude toward SM is serious. I hope you are equally sincere. I like ddlg. I like playful little girls. I like K9 and I also like K8. My heart is warm, but my hand is black (strict). My hobbies are wide; I can play most of SM, and I like exploring. But I'm not into blood, and I'm not disgusting. I can keep you penned or free-range; if the distance is close, that's best. If the distance is far, I can bring you over. I won't consider long-term long-distance. The scene is too chaotic; scammers please detour, the sincere can come chat. Act with care and discretion.
The relaxed feeling on a Dom. It's that some Doms are very comfortable to be with — calm, gentle, but you can feel distance, a weight that comes from capability. Like the Godfather in a movie, stroking a cat. From a Dom's perspective, I think a Dom with a relaxed feeling is more attractive. A kind of confidence that needs no external props, from inside out. When you're not deliberately displaying your Dom attribute, the things that naturally flow out — experience, conversation, cultivation, including EQ and IQ. There are too many things a sub can admire; submission from the heart goes far deeper than submission for the attribute bonus. There's no tutorial for how to cultivate that relaxed feeling; it's more about accumulation — a relaxed feeling forced out artificially isn't real relaxation. When the other person admires you as a person, things fall into place naturally, and your attribute becomes a bonus point, something that makes the other person feel deeply lucky. Meeting someone you really admire, and your attributes happen to match, is absolutely a matter of extreme luck. In this fast-paced era, people who can confidently say they won't be defined by labels are few and far between. Let's encourage each other, you and I.
My sleep has really had some problems recently, I need to adjust. My schedule is too un-"exchange-rate" — insomnia
